Scarf-tastic!

Wrap It Up!


You know what I love? Beautiful, light, summery scarves! They are a fun and stylish accessory to a bland t-shirt or solid-colored sundress. Medium-fit t-shirts are a wonderful modest option, but I love feeling girly and dressed up. Instead of settling for a subdued appearance, spice it up!


Charming Charlie's


I'm not sure where you can find these stores, but when it comes to fantastic accessories, Charming Charlie's is the place to go. Not only is everything color coordinated, they have at least three or four different styles of scarves in all your favorite shades. 


How It Looks


Here are some adorable examples of the t-shirt and scarf ensemble. 

Basic white T becomes classy and fresh!

Striped shirts can use spice too.

I love the embellishment on the neck of this shirt, but the thin scarf held together with that cute flower brings the whole outfit to a new level. 

Talk about stylish! A flowy shirt with this beaded and bunched scarf is mature and dressy.

Get a scarf and have a great day!

Taking it the Gym (Part One)

Working Out with Falling Out!

Yoga pants have become staple grocery shopping and hang-out wear over the past few years. If you are a gym-junkie, you might also find sports bra's to be "in" when you go workout.

I'm not overly comfortable in super-tight pants and baring my barely-toned tummy. With that in mind, I set out to find some modest work-out wear that you don't mind wearing in mixed company.

Snazzy Shirts!

At $37.93, this shirt may be a bit over-budget, but the sporty blue and short sleeves makes it a cool look for the gym! http://www.rei.com/product/836110/the-north-face-better-than-naked-shirt-womens-2011-closeout

This option comes in both this pretty pink and a dazzling deep purple. For $26.93 it is less expensive but equally as cute! http://www.rei.com/product/833501/sugoi-verve-t-shirt-womens-2011-closeout

This one is my personal favorite! Young and feminine it is the perfect addition to your work-out wardrobe. It also happens to be the cheapest - gotta love a bargan hunter! ($18.93)
http://www.rei.com/product/829437/brooks-ez-t-diva-t-shirt-womens-2011-closeout

Whatever your style, there are fantastic options for t-shirts made of light-weight fabric for those intense workout sessions.

Enjoy :)

Modesty Quote #2

"Modesty in dress and manner will assist in protecting against temptation. It may be difficult to find modest clothing, but it can be found with enough effort. I sometimes wish every girl had access to a sewing machine and training in how to use it. She could then make her own attractive clothing. I suppose this is an unrealistic wish. But I do not hesitate to say that you can be attractive without being immodest. You can be refreshing and buoyant and beautiful in your dress and in your behavior. Your appeal to others will come of your personality, which is the sum of your individual characteristics. Be happy. Wear a smile. Have fun. But draw some rigid parameters, a line in the sand, as it were, beyond which you will not go." -President Gordon B. Hinckley, 2004 from a talk entitled, "Stay on the High Road"

Classy for Church

Church-Wear Trends


Do regularly attend church?


These days many churches are laid back regarding style. Jeans and a t-shirt have become perfectly acceptable church-wear. With that, mini-skirts and tank tops are common summer staples - even under the steeple!


Challenge


1. Do not let the status quo dictate your wardrobe. Being a woman is a beautiful thing! We were designed to be stunning, and rolling out of bed and slipping on jeans for church just does not do our design justice!


Instead, pull out that skirt you love to wear to the office.


Try dark-wash tailored jeans with a pair of heals. It is amazing how quickly heels can take you from casual to classy.


Curl your hair if its usually straight, or straighten it if you usually curl it. There is elegance in changing things up from time to time!


2. Leave the mini-skirts and tank tops in your closet (or the trash!). If you are going to pull off something edgy, leave it outside the church building. Ask yourself, "Do I look like a lady?" We should respect God's house, first of all, and second, respect our bodies. Church is not about stunning the crowd, but looking into the stunning face of your Savior.

A Valiant Father

Hello ladies!

Father's day may be a month away, but here is a poem I wrote in honor of my father. Check it out!

http://voices.yahoo.com/a-valiant-father-11328288.html?cat=42

Modesty Quote of the Day

"The girl who chooses to be modest chooses to be respected. A boy who is honest with himself will admit that he likes a girl who is modest in speech, conduct, and dress. Modesty is one of the great virtues he looks for in the girl he hopes to marry. Most of us know what is modest, and most of us know when modesty ends and immodesty commences. We know that nothing detracts from the loveliness of a young lady more than immodesty in speech or immodesty in conduct. A girl fools only herself if she thinks she isimpressing a boy by immodest conduct. The young lady who dresses in an immodest manner ceases to be attractive and embarrasses the young man. She has called his attention to the person rather than the personality. The girl who chooses to be modest, chooses to be respected."

~ Howard W. Hunter

Class of 2012!

Graduation Time!

Are you graduating this year?! Go class of 2012! Whether from high school or college, here are some stylish options from local department stores. Unfortunately, they would not let me save the pictures to insert into the blog, but you are one click away from a great dress!

Note: The “Fancy Frills” dresses are more expensive, scroll down to “Casual Crisp” for finds under $30.

Fancy Frills

If you are a girly girl here are some great modest options for graduation day:

Paired with a cute black shrug, this floor-length dress is a gorgeous option. ($77.00)

http://www.kohls.com/kohlsStore/juniors/dresses/PRD~1004502/Speechless+Ombre+Long+Tube+Dress.jsp

This next dress hits right above the knee and the “One-shoulder” makes a shrug a bit more difficult to use. However, if you don’t mind covering up the strap, it is an adorable find.

http://www.kohls.com/kohlsStore/juniors/dresses/PRD~1027174/My+Michelle+Ruffled+Asymmetrical+Dress.jsp ($53.99)

Casually Crisp

Some girls prefer a more laid back look for a fire on the beach. These sundresses can be worn all summer long and are much more affordable.

Here is another Kohl’s pick. ($29.99)

http://www.kohls.com/kohlsStore/juniors/dresses/PRD~1035530/Mudd+Animal+Maxi+Tube+Dress.jsp

This option comes is a variety of patterns (I own the rose/black pattern) and hits right at your knee. With a cami underneath and a shrug, it covers everything. It is also extremely comfortable. I have honestly never found a dress with such soft fabric! ($23.99)

http://www.kohls.com/kohlsStore/juniors/dresses/PRD~951717/Derek+Heart+Crochet+Floral+Dress.jsp

For only $25 this maxi dress is a fun, simple choice. A cami can disguise the lower-neckline and you could go with or without a shrug due to the thicker straps. They suggest dramatic jewelry for an evening out! Great idea!

http://www.jcpenney.com/jcp/X6.aspx?GrpTyp=PRD&ItemID=1e8c112&DeptID=71275&CatID=81020&SO=0&SelDim=4294957900%7e&CatSel=4294934949%7ccasual+dresses&NOffset=0&Ne=4294957900+29+3+1031+8+18+1545&x5view=1&N=4294934949&Nao=0&PSO=0&bcCat=3&CmCatId=70646|81020&sa=1

Old Navy has amazing dresses this season. It is worth spending an hour on their website checking out all their options. They even have lightweight sweaters in an array of colors, so if you want your shoulders covered you are in luck!

This was my personal pick for graduation this year. It hits below the knee and coupled with their white sweater it is a fun dress that can be re-worn a million times! At $22.00, it’s a steal!

http://oldnavy.gap.com/browse/product.do?cid=50186&vid=1&pid=898274&scid=898274002

Mystery in Modesty

Rise in Modesty

Looking at tabloids and magazines, you may not think that modesty is making a comeback. In fact, despite your inhibitions, you may think immodesty is the only option - no matter your age. Mini-skirts for moms, "jeggings" in the teen section, and plunging necklines for little girls. Are you frustrated with the trends?

Whether you are a woman who is tired of feeling forced to show off your trouble spots, a teenager who whishes she did not feel like she is expected to show off everything she has, or a mother who cannot believe the clothing sold for her eight year old daughter, this blog is meant to highlight modest options for every age group. It does not matter what your reason for being modest is - for some women, it is their religion. Some women simply feel uncomfortable in the "latest fashions." Desiring to be modest is nothing to be ashamed of, no matter what Hollywood and billboards have to say about it.

There are Options

Spending the time searching for modest options can be painful. Lets be real, no one likes sifting through pages and pages of clothing only to find two or three reasonable options. That is why I am here to do the work for you! You can find modest options from just about any store and my goal is to do the sleuthing and let you see for yourself what you can go out their and buy.

Criteria for MysteryinModesty Picks

I will searching for clothing that meet the following criteria.

1. Affordable. For the average woman, we need an average price!

2. Stylish. Women are designed to be beautiful. There is no need to hide under repulsive or frumpy clothing. There are plenty mainstream options for trendy modesty.

3. Modest! Standards for appropriette dress vary from family to family, woman to woman. I am not here to tell you how you should dress, just to show you some of the best of what is out there. In general I will look for knee-length skirts, tops that can be layered to cover your shoulders, and pants that do not shrink-wrap your booty.

Stay Tuned!

Come back often to check out my newest picks and for great MysteryinModest tips!